Finally, after having to push the kid out the door, he has managed to find himself a girl! For about a week and a half, he has been moping around about this girl, and they finally made it "official" last night. He was so excited, that he promptly changed his relationship status on his Facebook. Sigh...he is a funny kid!
For the record, I had the great pleasure of finding out about the official hook up from the horse's mouth. As I had been in my peaceful slumber, I receive a call at 1151 last night. May I just say, that because I have been so tired, I was in bed by about 830, which is quite rare, so when he asked "Were you sleeping?" I promptly responded "of course not!" So, he came by beaming, and grinning from ear to ear. As I struggled to appear awake and alert, his lady called and he begins talking to her. Feeling a little peeved that I was woken from my normally limited sleeping time, only to have the boy show up and talk on the phone with his girl, I did my best to conceal my irritation, as I knew he was super excited to share his news. I went to the laundry room to fold my clothes in the dryer, and then to my room to put them away, rather than adding to the already huge pile of clean clothes still sitting on top of my massage table.
As we finally made our way to the garage to put on a movie and chat, he grinned and put his arms in the air in triumph! I thought this might be the beginning of less time spent with Matt, but it seems he is determined to have have two women in his life...the girl, and me. The girl he makes out with and talks to about who knows what, and me, the woman he shares his woes with, and does sports with and helps him pick out more stylish clothing. I'm not sure he gets that I won't be around all the time to fulfill his need for that sort of companionship, but I've already told him, so it's his own denial. I blame myself for his dependency on me, but have drawn the line and work hard to enforce that boundary.
He is excited though, to introduce me to her tonight at tennis. In fact, we have changed tennis night from tomorrow to today. I am certain I will want to slap her in the face by the end of the night, since all his little girls he is into are always so annoying, but it is his girl, so I will be cordial. I actually had to tell him to stop introducing me to every single floozy he makes out with, or dates once or twice, and to just introduce me to the one's he actually is dating and so I don't wear myself out. I only have so much tolerance for the girls, and my civility towards them is limited as well.
I am still in need of unpacking all my crap in the garage, but struggle to figure out where to put it all. I may have to just throw a bunch of my food away, as there doesn't seem to be any room in our kitchen, and Tia still has boxes of stuff waiting to be unpacked.
I guess for me, first things first! I finally got a bed, but it still sits in the garage. That will be today's effort as I wait for tennis to begin. As soon as my room is picked up, I can move my love seat and get rid of my existing sleeping mat to make room for the bed. Not only do I have a bed now, but I also bought real pillows. They are even of a decent quality. I must admit, since I bought the pillows, my sleep has improved dramatically. Who knew??? No more two dollar pillows for this girl!!!
ej
2 comments:
I need to see a picture of this Matt guy, he seems interesting! Stop giving him so much of your time, you're better than that!!Does he read all this on your blog???
I know, I know. That's why I told him to go "cultivate" and such. He's a good guy though, so don't get too crazy. But, no, he doesn't read my blog. Not sure he's much of a reader! Haha!
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